all about me stella

I love you

2011-04-17T10:36:00.000-07:00

always have a good time with my dar every weekend and days :)

很好看到台湾剧

2011-04-17T09:02:00.000-07:00

“ 你是否承诺今后始终爱他..尊敬他，珍惜他，保护他。。不论他是生病或健康，不论是否他是否富有或贫穷，你都会忠贞于他，至死不渝吗？ ”

爱是什么，它并不深奥，其实爱就是愿意许下这样的承诺..而且决心一定要做到.. 你的伴侣愿意回答：我愿意吗？

努力：有人努力是害怕失去，有人努力是因为自觉不足，也有人努力是因为没有退路。。

你们是哪一种呢？

也许一本书，一场喜剧，可以需学到的东西很多。。如果没有返回思考，这也只是一个过目无记

不能睡

2010-08-02T11:56:00.000-07:00

失眠问题越来越严重，不能睡。。

一个月的假期就快完毕了，又要开始新的学期。。

成绩又要公布了 == （怕）

刚刚从RED BOX 回来，很久没和朋友出去了。。

也许不大喜欢外出的感觉。。

因为回来都很累。。

本身很少玩“心里测验” ，因为觉得最了解的一定是自己。。

并不是随着所谓的心理测验的结果而去评论自己。。

世上人的性格有很多种。。

例如性格A 名叫 AA , 性格 B 的人叫BB

他们说话的反应，回复，动作。。都会随着他们的性格而反映出来。。

这两个性格就不会一样了。。

如果不同的人拥有同一个性格，他们所反映出来的一切都会相似。。

随着反应而定出性格，而不是性格定出反应。。

这就可以让人简单的分析他人。。

越亲密的人，就越难分析出他人的性格，人格还有想法。。

因为，在自己的脑海里一定早就确定他/她是个怎样的人。。

然而，这会使你的分析里出错。。

例如你的脑海里的他/她是好的，但是由于动作，回复，反应都是负面的。。

那么这就会干扰了分析能力。。

因为在人的脑海里，我们都会把我们比较早知道的事情，占为比较大的影响力。。

就想往常我们小时后学习数学。

补习老师所教导的方式与算法都与学校的不同。。

由于我们从哪里先学到，往后我们就会随着较早学到的去解答问题。。

因为，这占了较大的影响力。。

另外一个例子，有一个告诉你其中一位你亲密的人的负面话。。

如果那亲密人在你脑海里是正面的，就是说性格较好，人好的那种。。

第一个的反应一定是： “ 哪里是？不是你说的那种”

那这就是我所说的较早的知道的，占为比较大的影响力。。

然而结果出来，让你很难去理解和分析你亲密的人。。

但是还是你所早知道的， % 比较大。。

这是自己所编写的，随着自己的分析而写出，也只是个人意见 *

-完毕-

2010-07-25T10:34:00.000-07:00

The sorcerer's apprentice was watched last few days ago with my dar . A not bad movie overall , worth to watch it =P and im not sleeping in the cinema again =P

great times with my dar always . hehe

2010-07-20T01:04:00.000-07:00

With money you can buy a house, but not family.

With money you can buy a clock, but not time....

With money you can buy a bed, but not sleep.

With money you can buy a doctor, but not good health.

With money you can buy a position, but not respect.

With money you can buy blood, but not life.

With money you can buy sex, but not love. ^_^"

发恶梦

2010-07-19T01:57:00.000-07:00

前几天，我发了一个恶梦。
第一次会让我起来哭的恶梦。
因为在梦中我找不到解决的方法。。
让我最难受的就是找不到解决方法。
虽然这只是梦，但是像真的一样。。
如果这真的发生了。。
我应该怎么做？

家家有本难念的经，我要怎样才能把这本经念完？

2010-07-19T01:34:00.000-07:00

人生怎样才是过得好？
有人会说，我要在这一生赚很多钱。。
有人说，我要在这一生和我真爱一起。。
有人说，我只要平凡。。
到底怎样的才是好？
说过这些话的人，又有去尝试去过那些他想要的吗？

其实，人生短站。。
例如有九十年。。
去掉傻傻的20年，因为个人觉得1-20岁根本做不出什么。。
只是这20年给你体验这世界，学习一切。。
那还剩70年。。
有的21岁就工作了。。有的还是继续升学。。
20岁开始给你去寻找梦想。。
计划你的未来。。
5-8 年里让你学习工作的态度。。
过后就结婚生子。。
10年里给你找你喜欢的，爱的。。
其实爱与生意一样
所谓创业容易，守业难。。
要找到伴侣很容易，保护你的感情却很难。。
又有多少人愿意去保护？愿意去守业？
像往常听见的，这个不适合就找别个。。
这生意不能做就转换行业。。
有多少人愿意去一一解决问题？
愿意去理解为何会发生此事。。
怎样才能把这江山或爱情保护得最好。。
其实很多东西一开始都是陌生的，
不去管理，难道可以自然的会有你想要的结果吗？
有人说 , 我尽力了。。很累了。。
难道去选择新的，从新去接触。。
这不是更加累吗？
我不知道我一直努力，去维持的一切。。以后会变得怎样。。
但愿一切顺利。。

2010-07-13T06:42:00.000-07:00

I almost forgot what is critical review , what I need to do for critical review?
I just opened my old assignment which was hang up last time , and had a review .
I saw frm the review was starting like this :
This article is about how to lose weight fast . From the article , the author was teaching us how to lose weight fast without pills .In the other hand , the author was teaching us step by step to achieve lose weight target . After summarizing the author’s article , I understood the article has discussed about how to lose weight fast with healthy steps and it is let me easy to get understanding as the steps are clearly showed in the article . In concluding , I shall prove that the article has help who is keen to lose weight fast and not goes to wrong way lose weight fast ideas as diet or diet pills .
Assignment is easier because I picked article myself . I'm bad to giving title and get the points from article . What I gonna do 2mr?

还是在家好

2010-07-12T10:46:00.000-07:00

今天和朋友去喝茶，又再花钱了 ==
还好不是花很多。。因为我的钱包剩不多。。
ATM 机不接受我的卡，所以没有按钱出来。。
还庆幸那款机不接受我的卡。。
其实平时的我喜欢在家，但是久了都会变得懒惰。。
因为一直坐着 xD
今天吃了牛肉面，汤的味道和泰国MAMEE鸭面相似。。
可能是一样的吧。。大家可以试试600CC的牛肉面，还有去TESCO买泰国MAMEE鸭面来试试。。一样的 :)
改天我去买了再拍照给大家看看那包装

美人心计

2010-07-10T12:45:00.000-07:00

美人心计，近几天在看的戏剧。。因为新港片不大好看。。就这个咯。。很好看的 :)
推荐喔！
戏里还有张晓晨，但是现在再剧里还没出现。。期待。。 :)

家家有本难念的经

2010-07-09T13:11:00.000-07:00

家家有本难念的经，大家都有自己的忧虑，自己的伤心处。。

很多人都说：“ 你和你男朋友很好."

是的。。我们都很好，但是也是有难念的经。。每个人都有自己不快乐的地方，只是选择说还是不说。。

如果说了，大家都认为你真的不快乐。选择不说，只说好的。大家都认为你很幸福。。

有些人问我，怎么你们都不吵架？

我就觉得怎么会吵架？没什么好吵的。。（以前就不会这样了）

让我问问大家。。

曾经试过几次让你爱的人离开你？却没什么理由。。就离开了。。

而你会埋怨那人怎么这样，好像在玩玩。。觉得自己被耍了。。

但是有没有想过，为什么他或她要离开呢？

难道只是对方的错吗？

还是，在那段时间你没爱过他？

大多数都会为自己而狡辩，因为人类是比较偏爱自己的。

例如：你选择你自己受伤，还是他/她受伤？

有些人会说：如果他是爱我的，他不介意让他自己受伤

有人会说：当然他/她咯。。受伤很痛的叻

也有人说：我不想受伤，但是我也不想他/她受伤

这些就是爱自己的表现。。

只有真爱的出现，你会选择自己的受伤而不张扬。。

如果你是宁愿自己受伤而也想让他/她知道的话。。

你就是那个人付出也等回报的人。。

这也代表，你不是真爱。。

朋友，你得到真爱了吗？

Here again

2010-07-04T05:46:00.000-07:00

Long time did not update my blog here. :)

Do u all think before what u all really want and need ?
Some people want something but get something they don't need it .
Some peple need something is just enough for themselve .
what about u people?

Time flies , thinking changed .
I realised a lot of people finding and searching something they dont need it but demand for it .
but what for ?

A quote for today : When everything is enough for u , do not demand for much more . You will realised u r the lucky and the happy 1 :)

2010-03-01T10:04:00.000-08:00

Last friday and saturday was with my dar . friday was lunch with him and his mum at karen kitchen , night just headed to tambun :)
saturday we js bought wan tan mee back home makan together and night just went to watch movie . wat wat lighting thief d . hehe. forgot the name . Good movie . ^^

Sometimes I heard ppl said Im very xin fu .. umm .. yes maybe . ^^ For family , umm .. not bad but still can be better :) For love , umm .. I found one I loved . muak . Next to myself , not so good . Although i already had all these thing but still have no motivation for myself . huhu!

that's all and i miss my dar :D muak

2010-02-20T00:47:00.000-08:00

爱情是一门很难抓摸和深奥的学问。

以前读书做练习或考试，只要你有事先准备好，

好好将所有学过的程式记起来,你就可以得分。

但爱情并不是，它没有程式让我们去跟，

它远远超越书本上可以学到的学问。

就算你准备得再好，做得再好，

就算做对了，你也未必会得满分，

未必可以得到你想要的结果。

因为人和书毕竟是两回事。

有人会觉得爱情应该是简简单单的，把它简单化，好好享受过程，过程才是最值得回味的，

爱了就不要抱歉？见仁见智。

我并不认同，当我们在爱情的跑道中找对了人，

那爱情就不再是一个人的事了，

当我们选择了爱，就要对爱负责任，

我们要去深层了解彼此，

道理很簡單，就好像平时深层的洁净我们的肌肤一樣，

然后再放上一些保养品，滋润它，对待我们的肌肤，

就像我们对待我们的另一半一样，

当了解彼此后，

好好的去维持，去珍惜彼此，享受每一個過程，

程中的點點滴滴是絕對值得去回味的。

这样的爱才能长久，彼此才能更舒服地在一起。

这才是真爱如果每一个人都是简简单单的谈恋爱，

不去了解彼此然后做出适当的改变，

这就是自私的爱，往往也会出现无形的伤害。

我很庆幸，我找对了人 ,

只要坚持彼此要一直在一起的信念，

Forever Love 就不会只是个童话故事。:)

Dar I love u :)

im back !

2010-02-20T00:05:00.000-08:00

I was stopped at last last wednesday (10th) , was happened bad again . My car's tyre was broke down when on the way to airport fetch my sister . At last dar cames and pick me and together fetch my sis back from air port . thanks dar . muak

thursday ( 11th )

Nothing much about that day , remember I was fetching my sis go to hair dyed . the rest i was not really rmb

friday ( 12th )

Remember that day was fetching my sis went to see doctor and at last headed to prangin mall . during nite , Dar and I went to auto city had tao buffet , tao lounge and city box . back at quite late .

saturday ( 13th )

Tat was reunion day , I was went dar house reunion at noon , because my family reunion during nite .

ate very much and felt very full . we were fell sleep after ate :) muak

around 6pm i was back to my home and reunion around 9 pm

dar went club at nite without me. huhu T_T

sunday ( 14th )

Tat was the 1st day of chinese new year and also valentine's day . I was went my grandma house during noon and back around 5pm . :)

after that went dar house awhile and we headed to had valentine's dinner :)

we were watching KAM YI WAI that nite after dinner . muak . happy valentine's day my dar

video above is created by me for my dar . muak

monday ( 15th )

that was nian chu 2 , was stay home at noon and nite dar and I dinner at xuan xin with my family .

tuesday ( 16th )

nothing much about the day =/

wednesday ( 17th )

nian chu 4 , i can be with dar whole day . Morning , noon , nite and midnight . muak . I love you dar .

thurday ( 18th )

nian chu 5 , it is same ah nian chu 4 . Love dar . muak . watch wolfman that nite , was not bad movie .

Friday ( 19th )

nian chu6 , together eat pizza with dar . muak . and home at evening . after that headed to egate with sin ying , sujie cames after we reached . Met my dar at thr too . dar hug hug . muak

2010-02-10T01:14:00.000-08:00

I just realised many days i didnt update my blog .
I almost forgot what i did with these few days i dont update my blog
i just rmb were went dar house during last saturday and dinner together with his family at night because of his nephew's birthday . We were went back bath and nite headed to club , was drunk == thanks dar for take care me , muak . love dar

on the sunday , we woke up in the morning and dar was cooked for me the breakfast . was watching movie during noon time , about evening we just headed eat and movie :) muak

a very enjoyable and happy weekend for me :)

monday i was hanging out with sujie to qb , after that met ailin and we joined together . not awhile sujie left and find her mum , we me and ailin after awhile just left qb and headed to gp hunting for clothes . and last we just went to makan at new land . :)

tuesday i was having exam , after exam went to prangin mall awhile and kena summon , dun mention about it d == sad till gila . then night i just take present for my dar and we went to supper. muak

wednesday - which means today == just exam , hope bad happen will not be seeing today =/

many days

2010-02-03T22:32:00.000-08:00

1st of feb - Today have no class . :) I stay home until nite then find sin ying makan and find my bao bei lao gong . muak :)

2nd of feb - I having my class from 9 til 5pm . but was dismiss at 3 somthing i think , after that i fetch sin ying go to prangin mall. because she wanted to buy bus ticket to find her boy friend during cny . we were ate tom yam noodle and walking around . I just bought one pair of shoe , because out of money . :(

3rd of feb - It is a bad day for me == ok , morning i was over slept then i late for school . well , it is small matter . After i dismiss my class , i went to get my car . and i saw a big cross on my car ! DUNNO WHICH SIAO LANG USE STONE DRAW MY CAR ! I was very angry .. then i reverse my car to out of parking . unexpectly i bang ppl car == and i need to pay ppl money for repairing . T_T It is a really super bad day for me :'( I already out of money but still doing me like that T_T
and nites i was hang out with my dar makan at kou fu lou and movie.. huhu.. dar hug hug

2010-01-31T10:04:00.000-08:00

In 2009 I have:
( ) stayed single for the whole year

(X) made out in/on a car

( ) kissed in the snow

( ) celebrated Halloween

( ) kissed in the rain

( ) had your heart broken

( ) broke someone else's heart

( ) had a stalker

(X) went over the minutes on your cell phone

(X) had a good relationship with someone

(X) someone questioned your sexual orientation

( ) gotten pregnant

( ) had an abortion

(X) have a relationship with someone you'll never forget

( ) done something you've regretted

( ) lost faith in love

( ) kissed under a mistletoe

OTHER
(X) painted a picture

(X) wrote a poem

( ) ran a mile

(X) posted a blog

(X) listened to music you couldn't stand

(X) went to a sleepover

( ) went camping

( ) threw a surprise party

( ) laughed till you cried

( ) laughed till you peed in your pants

( ) visited a foreign country

( ) cut in a line of waiting people

(X) told someone you were busy when you weren't

( ) partied to celebrate the new year

( ) cooked a disastrous meal

( ) lost something/someone important to you

In 2009, I:
(X) broke a promise

(X) lied

( ) went behind your parents back

(X) cried over a broken heart

( ) disappointed someone close

( ) hide a secret

( ) pretended to be happy

( ) slept under the stars

( ) kept your new years resolution

( ) forgot your new years resolution

(X) met someone who changed your life

( ) met one of your idols

( ) changed your outlook on life

(X) sat home all day doing nothing

( ) pretended to be sick

( ) left the country

( ) almost died

( ) given up something important to you

( ) lost something expensive

(X) learned something new about yourself

(X) tried something you normally wouldn't try and liked it

(X) made a change in your life

(X) found out who your true friends were

(X) met great people

(X) stayed up till sunrise

( ) cried over the silliest thing

(X) was never home on weekends

(X) got into a car accident

(X) had friends who were drifting away from you

( ) had someone close to you die

( ) had a high cell phone bill

(X) spent most of your money on food

( ) had a fist fight

(X) went to the beach with your best friend

( ) saw a celebrity

( ) gotten sick

( ) liked more than 5 people at the same time

( ) became closer with a lot of people

2010-01-31T09:18:00.000-08:00

刚到家，刚才和SIN YING 去喝茶。。 NOODLE STATION 的饮料真的不能喝。。
浪费我的钱 == RM6 。。加服务费10% 。。心痛得要命 == 到现在还在痛着。。
过后我们回MAMAK 吃东西。。 ROTI TISSUE 等了很久。。很久。。还没到。。。时间快要一点了。。等到生气。。走了。。

每次都觉得很后悔出去。。 == 因为很浪费钱。。在家又没事做。。因为我是一个没工作的人。。如果在家就是24 小时在家的。。但是还是比花钱来得好。。。 HUHU。。

突然觉得怕怕的。。怕怕的感觉又来了==怎么办？

muak

2010-01-30T22:41:00.000-08:00

Finally met up my dar these few days .. we were not meet up for 5 days edi.. huhu
so happy when see my dar , cus with my dar always happy not matter doing what .hehe :)
friday we were headed to raja uda makan thai food at khoon tai , after that we went bed located at e-gate . Because town area must be very jam .. i think around 12 am we went back together . muak

saturday -
was been dar house after i woke up , b4 that we went to makan 1st . stay until nite then go makan again , after that only pi play games with him. muak.. back around 11 smth :)

love staying beside dar no matter when , where and doing wat . muak :)
miss dar .

2010-01-28T06:31:00.000-08:00

很闷，真的除了上课我就是在家。。

心情又很差，很想一个人静一静。。

想一个人逛街。。

一个人坐在COFFEE BEAN 上网。。

但是这些是没钱做不到的事==

等薪水等了很久了。。

都还没进。。

又跟姐姐预拿下个月的ALLOWANCE ==

真是一个字，'穷"到想死。。

我的钱都用在日常生活中了。。

因为爱买零食。。

应该都浪费在这里。。

还有，车油==

每次都是RM30 这样大。。

不敢打太多。。

因为怕不够用。。

这些花费还不是那么伤。。

伤就在买药。。 ==

一定要的。。

我真的想死。。

我应该什么工作都应该接了。。

不管工钱低或高。。

有空我就要做了。。。。

有工作找我!!!

不管OUTSTATION还是什么的。。

我都可以。。

2010-01-27T07:41:00.000-08:00

最近听了一些朋友的心事。。怎么都好像是爱情的？没别的。。有吧。。未来的打算也听得些。。但是也不比说起爱情心事来得专注

相信很多人都怕自己的男朋友出轨，或者是欺骗自己。。但是存着怀疑的爱。。很辛苦的。。这是真的。希望你们可以放下这一个“辛苦” 。。例外。。有些人对爱人都会很有心机。。就比如说。。我想试探他。。好像分手只是为了挽留这一类的。。被试探感觉得到的。。这感觉就像被威胁。。爱他就不要对他有心机。。你的真心对待往往比试探来的好。。

此外，也了解了什么是玩玩的爱情。。就是，当你有了另一半。。又看到更好的条件。。你就会放下旧的而离去。。这是我个人观点吧。。或者有些人不这么觉得。。有些人觉得遇到更好的应该马上扑过去。。这是最佳选择和机会。。但是在恋爱期间又不是玩玩的。。想一想。。当你在恋爱期间，有没有想过遇到更好的？如果有，那你当你的男朋友是什么？暂时代替吗？
也有人会说很矛盾的话。。我怕他出轨，才会有这样的打算。。那。。你的想法是不是已经在出轨了呢？有爱就要珍惜。。让他的一切，成为你生活的一部份。。而不是只是一个有没有也没关系，因为。。还有很多。 ==
也许，你的很多。。但那些很多保证是真心对待的那一类吗？

美。。美到要死。。

2010-01-27T07:24:00.000-08:00

美。。她什么都美。。她的头发。。她的脸。。她的笑容。。。。我每天都要看着她
HAHAHAHAH

2010-01-26T08:36:00.000-08:00

突然觉得好害怕，又是那一种感觉。。
就是那一种害怕失去的感觉。。
不知是什么事情让我这么的觉得。。
是什么事将要发生了？
还是我的药起了作用？
好害怕。。:(

2010-01-26T04:48:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was hang out with vivian after malaysia economic during class . We went to sing k at noon time and walk around after that . Vivian bought 2 clothes and 1 pant , from mng and top shop . I bought nothing =/ just cards and something .. huhu
after gurney we went to makan dinner at err.. dunno how to tel in english . maybe " middle road" @@ after that I just went her house for chatting . were chatting whole day non stop , talk about what happen in this half year we dun meet up :)
i back during 12 something . SUPER TIRED AND REALLY TIRED . today i fell sleep in class , it is my 1st time . Dont know why so tired . and now i just wake up :) it is 8 pm something now .

Not meeting up my dar these days . so miss him :( how?

2010-01-24T08:13:00.000-08:00

How to increase my monthly income ?

- work

yes I work as freelance sometimes . Not stable monthly income .

- running online business

It is too much competitor in the market , should I be one of them ?

- less going out

Yes . I'm already seldom going out . It is only going for class either dinner .

What is my dream ?

- A stable income job

Do you think student have stable income job ? I'm looking for it still .

- A good boy friend

Yes . I have one :) I love him

- A knowledge person

I think I am not :(

- A own car

I cant afford a car for now and yet I still under age to get one for myself .

- A own house

It will be happen few years later if i have enough MONEY to buy

More dreams to go , I don't want to write it down because I cant achieve in this moment :(

saturday

2010-01-23T11:00:00.000-08:00

Today I was went out with my dar to lunch after his working around 1pm+ . was very jam on the road , we were taken quite long time to reach e-gate noodle station . After lunch we just back to dar house , quite scare to meet his parents . Although it is not the 1st time i meet them but STILL SCAREEE @@ I dunno wat to do , I dunno what to say .. I just know how to shy and how to hide == Never been meet boy friend's parents .. It makes me dunno what to do .. huhu .. I hope I wont be afraid but i cant , I hope I could same as usual I facing my best friend's parents . But i cant , the feeling is'nt same . =/

We have been stay until 7 something and plan went to eat thai food but in the end we went to karen / cavern kitchen . Forgot the name =P I cant finish those food , easy to get full currently :(
after dinner bao bei lao gong js sent me home . muak . HUG HUG and i love u dar :)

Heart dar

2010-01-21T23:17:00.000-08:00

Nothing much about yesterday during afternoon . Afternoon just went college returning book and went for c doctor . :)
Night I went out with my bao bei lao gong watch tooth fairy . Quite nice movie but expected ending .. So not much interesting about the movie . Seeing dar so tired face me abit sim tia edi =(
feeling like should not go out and should be rest at home . awww * dar sek sek , muak . hehe
we finished our movie then left the cinema around 11pm . I love u dar . muak and thanks for the present :) hehe . I love it but abit heart pain for it :( hug hug

credited from dar . muak :)

Today my sister came back here . Bring alot of souvenir balik frm korea xD . Feeling so happy .kakaka . Alot of masks , biscuits and one necklace . I love the necklace =D thanks sis . hehe !

credited from my sis

2010-01-20T06:25:00.000-08:00

刚刚起身。。已经是晚上的十点左右了。。是因为停电所以起身的，突然感觉很热 ==
现在还是很Blur的。。今天放学去买了potato chips . =D 买了三罐。。足够陪我在家了。。上网吃东西很享受的 xD
今天早上很爱睡。。加上爸爸载我去学校。。更加惨。。因为很早很早就会被叫醒。。他不会让你再睡== 每十分钟敲一次门。。== 很乱的。。
到学校。。还是一样爱睡。。要不是下午有QUIZ。我一定回家。。今天下午还是吃一样的东西。。吃粥。。哈哈。。好吃又便宜。。 =D RM2.50 而已。。换成在GURNEY吃。。这边可以吃十次了。。又不用CARPARK钱。。省到笑 xD
很多天没有见到DAR了。。 huhu .. 好像怪怪的。=( i miss my bao bei lao gong . hug hug
I will always be better than past :) and I will try to be the best . muak

2010-01-19T23:47:00.000-08:00

烛光晚餐。桌两边，坐了男人和女人.

　　“我喜欢你。”女人一边摆弄着手里的酒杯，一边淡淡地说着。

“我有老婆。”男人摸着自己手上的戒指。　　

“我不在乎，我只想知道，你的感觉。你，喜欢我吗？”

　　男人抬起头，打量着对面的女人。　

　24岁，年轻，有朝气，相当不错的年纪。　　

白皙的皮肤，充满活力的身体，一双明亮的，会说话的眼睛。　　

真是不错的女孩啊，可惜。　　

“如果你也喜欢我，我不介意作你的情人。”女人终于等不下去，追加了一句。　　

“我爱我妻子。”男人坚定地回答。　　

“你爱她？爱她什么？现在的她，应该已经年老色衰，见不得人了吧。否则，公司的晚宴，怎么从来不见你带她来……” 　　

女人还想继续，可接触到男人冷冷的目光后，打消了念头。　　

静…… 　　

“你喜欢我什么？”男人开口了。　　

“成熟，稳重，动作举止很有男人味，懂得关心人，很多很多。反正，和我之前见过的人不同，你很特别。　　

“你知道三年前的我什么样子？”男人点了颗烟。　　

“不知道。我不在乎，即使你坐过牢。” 　　

“三年前，我就是你现在眼里的那些普通男人。”男人没理会女人，继续说。　　

“普通大学毕业，工作不顺心，整天喝酒，发脾气。对女孩子爱理不理，还因为去夜总会找小姐，被police抓过。”　　

“那怎么……”女人有了兴趣，想知道是什么让男人转变的。　　

“因为她？” 　　

“嗯。” 　　

“她那个人，好像总能看到事情的内在。教我很多东西，让我别太计较得失，别太在乎眼前的事，尽量待人和善。那时的我在她面前，就像少不更事的孩子。那时真的很奇怪，倔脾气的我，偏偏最听她的话。按照她说的，接受现实，我知道自己没用，就努力工作。那年年底，工作上稍微有了起色，我们结婚了。” 　　

男人弹了弹烟灰，继续说着。　　

“那时，真是苦日子。两个人，一张床，家里的家具也少得可怜。知道吗？结婚一年后，我才给她买了第一枚钻戒，存了大半年的钱呢。当然，是背着她存的。若她知道了，是肯定不让的。” 　　

“那阵子，因为烟酒弄得自己身体不好。大冬天的，她每天晚上睡前还要给我熬汤喝。那味道，也只有她做得出。”　　

男人沉醉于回忆里，忘记了时间，只是不停地讲述着往事。　　

女人，也丝毫没有打断的意思，静静地听着。　　

等男人注意到时间，已经晚上10点了。　　

“啊，对不起，没注意时间，已经这么晚了。”男人抱歉地笑了笑。　　

“现在，你可以理解嘛？我不可能，也不会，做对不起她的事。” 　　

“啊，知道了。输给这样子的人，心服口服了！”女人无奈地摇了摇头。“不过我到了她的年纪，会更棒的。” 　　

嗯。那就可以找到更好的男人。不是吗？” 　　

“很晚了，家里的汤要冷了，我送你回去。”男人站起身，想送女人。　

　“不了，我自己回去可以了。”女人摆了摆手。“回去吧，别让她等急了。” 　

　男人会心地笑了笑，转身要走。　　

“她漂亮嘛？” 　　

“……嗯，很美。” 　　

男人的身影消失在夜色中，留下女人，对着蜡烛，发呆。　

　男人回到家，推开门，径直走进卧室，打开了台灯。　

　沿着床边，他坐了下来。　　

“老婆，已经第四个了。干嘛让我变得这么好，好多人喜欢我呀。搞不好，我会变心呀。干吗把我变得这么好，自己却先走了？我，我一个人，好孤单呀……”　　

男人哽咽地说着，终于泣不成声。　　

眼泪，一滴滴从男人的脸颊流下，打在手心里的相框上。昏暗的灯光中，旧照片里弥漫着的是已逝女子淡淡的温柔。

hmm

2010-01-19T20:32:00.000-08:00

was trying to be simple and normal like everybody .. dislike to be a sociality person and hang around . It's tired for me enough . I know in this century everyone is competing with each other even frens , it no matter outlook , studies and etc . But should I ? I wanted to be quit for that , I really need a simple wan with comfortable life . Be myself is enough for that , without competing is feel much relax but non improving ? agree ? Hmm.. It might be . People .. what should I do? should i blend myself into the competing world ? umm ..

tired

2010-01-18T09:23:00.000-08:00

Today early morning went to class until 11am . and in a sudden got noon class . Failed to going out with my fren .. I'm sorry vivian :(
I back home awhile and feel lazy to go class again. feeling sleepy and i just lay on my bed and skip my lunch . Half sleeping and sms with my dar .. muak . I so miss u dar.. huhu..
I woke up with fresh mind about 5 something . went out with Sin ying and sujie to had dinner around jelutong area . back around 12 smth .
and last , I miss dar badly now. but my bao bei lao gong already sleeping . Good nite dar , muak . <3

thanksful

2010-01-17T07:03:00.001-08:00

Yesterday was working Define event at auto city . My bao bei lao gong fetched me go to work , thanks dar. muak . Before i work , dar brought me to makan at noodle station , then only we headed to auto city . As time still early , we were going to starbucks had drinks . muaks .
around 6 somethings , I gonna leave my dar and go work :( huhu . Dar went tambun with frens and then back to auto city again .
Define event was really stricted ! Not allow uninvited people to come in , as I think that was KL people too strict of that . ANGRYYYYY ==
was so pain and cold standing during working ;( really cold 1.. no joke =/ but $$$$ .. no idea xD
were so tired after work , but can see my dar instead after i working . worth ;) thanks for my bao bei lao gong was waiting me whole night. muak . I love u bao bei lao gong =) . hehe

Today was wake up around 11 smth . during noon i was hang out with my dar again.. hehe .. so happy .. muak . we went Queensbay kai kai , makan and movie .. hehe.. we went to buy movie tick after we reached . then we went to kai kai and makan at J.CO ;) VERY FULL xD after that we just enter cinema to watch THE SPY NEXT DOOR which is acted by Jackie chan . nice :) High ranking for it . thumb up :)
after movie we just left Queensbay . :) and i miss u dar. muak

Finally

2010-01-15T19:55:00.000-08:00

Finally i finished my exam . yeahh ^^V but more and more coming up soon . :( I think it is as soon as b4 chinese new year == , until now i still no idea with those 2 subjects which are malaysia economic and international marketing . freaking hard and during short sem. short sem always exam very soon @@

Other than that , thursday was watching " BIG DAY " with my bao bei lao gong . hehe . we were sat the 1st row xD It is a comedy movie but still not funny as singapore movie .. I prefer singapore movie :) B4 we went to watch movie , we were been winter warmers for tea =D , too bad the taste seems like abit changed .. lavender milk shake but taste like only milk shake ==

Tired but very happy hanging out with my bao bei lao gong. and thanks lao gong. I knw u were tired . hug hug. muak

tired but sweet in heart

2010-01-13T04:18:00.000-08:00

I was hanging out with my lovely dar last night .We were shop around and dar bought a scholl slipper :) We had watch a movie named PARANOMAL ACTIVITY . I lazy to talk about the story , future information u may go to watch it . =D I just can say that movie are doing the same thing repeatly but happenned some different matters .
Thanks dar still going out even u r tired , but dont next time ;( huhu .. heart is so pain when seeing own beloved so tired .. AND my dar fell sick today. huhu.. yang yang. muak . We may seeing each other but not going out for movie.. I think it is not that tired for ppl . but anyways , thanks my dar. muak
We were chatting on the phone after we reached home until 2 somethings , were talking about memory things :) muak . DAR I LOVE U . I seriously want to take this relationship stronger and happier than b4 always . :) We work hard for it.. hehe

Today was not realy can wake for my morning . Nothing much special for school thing . umm .. we were having malaysia economy class until 11am . we went for our brunch , and it is still early for next class. We were headed temple to have a pray . :)
below is my CHIAM :)

There are chinese and english version above . :)

I dont know it is true or not but it still a good one (:

2010-01-11T07:01:00.000-08:00

最近很累，都不知道自己在累什么 ==''
突然很想要旅行，不要想多多。。
很想念我的DAR ，好像很久没有YANG YANG 了。。
有点习惯前几个星期每天和他在一起的感觉。。
开眼睛就能看到他的感觉，不知怎么说。。很舒服的感觉。。
没有压力的感觉。。
如果一天没有你，我怎么办？
我不知道，每次一想到就想哭 ==
不是说笑的。。真的是一想到就会想哭。。
我也不知道做么会这样。。
心理障碍还是在。。怎么办?
好像给人感觉我很厉害哭这样== 我又不是。。真的不是。。
现在好像很不喜欢没有人管的感觉。。
感觉很寂寞的。。
以前就是不喜欢被管。。
无论是时间，金钱还是感情。。
现在我觉得没被管，好可怜的==
说到时间。。
我的时间真的没被管。。在朋友圈里面，我是最空闲的。。
不知道是没出去所以觉得空闲，还是太懒惰觉得空闲。。不知道==
记得中学时代，想要出，还要得到允许。。又不可以太迟回。。十一点就会打来。。或者十点==
现在有自己的交通工具，有时间。。就是喜欢坐在家里。。
金钱。。中学的时候和现在的ALLOWANCE差不多。。
只是中学的时候去学校才有钱拿。。没去没得拿的==
觉得越来越大。。ALLOWANCE越来越少。。
记得F1，F2 。一天RM20 。。 F3 。。一天RM10。。补习费自己给。。
其实是我自己要求的。。说真的，那时候自己给补习费。。还真的没压力。。因为吃都是吃家里的。。
补习费又不贵。。一科RM40 。那时候补来补去还是英文，数学，马来文。。 == 才 RM120 ，买衣服也是便宜的那种。。那时候一件RM50/RM60的衣服就会觉得很贵。。 == 哈哈。。

接下来， F4 -在槟城不久就去太平了。。
太平的消费。。 == 更少。。
补习费。。 RM25 一科。。还一科一星期两天那一种 == 很恐怖。。因为F4拿的科目会比较多。。
如果补很多科一定死== 补四科，一个星期要去8次。。很SIAO的== 我记得我补两科。。英文和马来文。。其他的都不补了。。因为那里什么都没有的。。没有SHOPPING MALL的。。我一定会有机会读书。。哈哈哈。。我只会去TESCO买东西。。 == 买很多的。。什么都买。。所以冰厨一定是满的，也不会让食物过期。。xD 因为没事就是开冰厨。。吃的就更省。。自己煮。。那里的菜很便宜的。。一把RM1 == 煮到你傻xD 煮汤更容易，就是按着次序丢。。哈哈。。每天都会煮。。自己吃而已。。因为每人在家。。姐姐晚上才放工的。。洗衣服。。说到洗衣服。。每次都会和姐姐吵架的。。两个人的有不同的洗衣法。。 SWT ==‘’ 她都会用洗衣机洗的。。我是用手洗的。。然后才放进洗衣机搅干。。她每次都会说很不清洁。。所以我们的一定分开。。好像很小气这样。。 ==

就这样过了， F5 回来了。。很开心。。因为我不用自己洗衣服了。。哈哈哈。。

（待续。。）累了==

爱

2010-01-10T19:45:00.000-08:00

我回来了。。刚刚从学校回来。。今天本来很不想去学校的，但是还是去了。。
相信很多人都被大人说过，小孩子谈的恋爱都是puppy love，玩玩的 ==?
我以前一直都在想为什么他们会这么说。。我又不是玩玩== 好像被冤枉。。
长大了，我就了解他们所说的。。年轻的。。看到帅就喜欢，在一起过后就觉得好骄傲== 不管对方的品行怎样，对你好不好。。就好像我爱就好。。现在想我真的觉得有点白痴。。就像中学生都很疯偶像这样。。什么飞轮海。。F4的。。道理一样。。那时疯偶像的时候不觉得疯。。在谈PUPPY LOVE的时候根本就不认同长辈的说法。。

以前在恋爱从没付出过。。不是没用心去爱。。只是我不懂爱一个人就会自然的照顾一个人的感受。。
以前我什么都会先想我自己。。现在觉得真的很自私。。可能不是自私。。只是我不会去爱。。
爱一个人。。对方的感觉或想法，往往来得比自己的感觉或想法来的重要。。因为自己的感觉或想法是可以自己去安排的。。对方的是自己控制不了。。也担心会不会乱想。。一大堆==

就像老公说的。。感觉和感情是不同的。。感觉是喜欢。。感情就是爱。。不管变得多冷淡，多生气对方。。感情依然还在，我还是一样爱你。。就像家人一样。。平时不多话，不表达你有多爱他们。。但是心底始终是-我爱我的家人。。不管发生什么事。。我都会一起共同患难。。这就是爱。。

我会一直爱着我的家人，还有我的老公。。
我希望我的老公能让我和你一起走到最后。。
因为我真的爱你 :)

2010-01-10T16:29:00.000-08:00

宝贝老公我去学校了（：8.31am .

很累

2010-01-09T08:28:00.000-08:00

很累。。真的很累。。很讨厌不知廉耻的人。。
你曾经背叛他人，真的很意外你还有脸回来说话。。
好像你应该被原谅？好像什么都没发生似的？
你的话让人听了，很累，很讨厌，很无耻，很瞎。。
你觉得你懂得很多？你是观音菩萨还是仙女下凡？告诉人家这个又那个的。。
而且嘴巴很多。。好像你很喜欢很多嘴巴长在你的脸上= = 应该很适合你的。。
你的画画应该很厉害吧？试着画画看一张脸，然后很多嘴在脸上。。你就看到你自己了！

I hate people spoil my hard build relationship and I never will be allow u to do that .

Today pi makan with my dar and watch movie Old dogs . HAPPY ^^ MUAK

happy (:

2010-01-08T09:51:00.000-08:00

So long didnt update my blog . Now i blog with my happy mood .. hehe.. yeah ^*^V
I was thought there was nobody would like to read my blog . But I'm wrong, my dar always there for me ^^ muak .

From today , I will be updating my blog everyday :)
Let's talk about today , today woke up about 11 smth ? i think so ..
then i went to bought lunch for dar... YEAHH.. ^^ but dar wait me i think nearly 2 hours time == sure hungry die le .. huhu.. dar sorry.. yang yang ..
then around 3 , i headed to college to find my lecturer . But i got nothing back home :( so i back in a short time .. i think not more than half hour me in the coll .

and the happy thing is , 2mr i can c my dar le.. YEAHHHH~~~~~ ^^v MUAK

i love ! (:

2009-12-27T05:29:00.000-08:00

爱无愧 (《美丽高解像》主题曲)
作曲∶邓智伟
填词∶陈诗慧
主唱∶何韵诗
耀眼金色的包装你今天好比如一束花
明天这一刻璀璨吗
拆开金色的包装我今天应该能看到吧
谁故意去诱惑沉迷难逃吗
或者心里就似是有鬼
越想触碰越要学放低
有一种忌讳是一世
什麽亦能摧毁 Hmm Hmm
或者可以自我控制别理会世间引诱艳丽
谁可以就算得到身边一切然而仍能无愧
就怪当天不小心那一丝的差错已送运连带了今天的处分
结果一早应该知道竟胆敢一试太过分
忘记有过快乐如毫无良心
为了需要甚至献计在这乱世间引诱艳丽
如果你妄想得到身边一切对错任你控制

I’m back .

2009-12-03T07:46:00.001-08:00

Yes . I’m back here to update my blog . I’m not here for a long time because there is nothing update about me everyday . Same as usual , there is staying home as usual .. :)

This time I’m not going to talk about myself . But giving a title for me to write . (:

< B o o k >

Book is a thing which contains words or pictures in pages .

Last time I would like to read books , especially those comics or novels . But now not even i touch them . Not i dislike them but I just became avoid of books ! why ? It might be influence from my mom . Not I blaming her but it’s a fact . Remember while I was in primary , I love to reading such as novel or something thick books with words . Of course there are not text books ! so my mum would be keep nagging me why not read text book but them .. At the beginning i was ignored her , but of course everyday nagging would be influence me .. I starting stop to read them , leave them away in my drawer . Alright , I starting to read few pages of my text book. But they are not attract me because those still school’s staff and teacher was teaching everyday .. I liked to study those novels and some thick books with stories because I never know what is the ending . So i was quite interest into that .. But mum words influence me , she said : “reading other book which not related for your exam is wasting time . “ YEA .. it keep reminding of me ..Until now , im not reading books often .. because .. I already lost the patient .. and though of it is wasting time . ==

n e w

2009-11-07T23:13:00.000-08:00

give up my old blog template that I did that for 3 days .. I changed to simple template now . (:

new started .

2009-10-28T10:04:00.000-07:00

saturday

2009-08-09T08:49:00.000-07:00

Went to watch ON HIS MAJESTY SECRET SERVICE on saturday night with dar and his friends . A not bad movie yet funny but seems like no story .=) hehe
Noon was went to pragin , wanted to get a phone but failed to c a nice one .
after awhile sujie sent yin leng back , then we went to sunflower bakery to looked up , after that only went her's dad shop which sell old style furniture . =)
after that we headed to queensbay mall , i got some clothes back frm there. hehe. we were keep thinking where to have dinner , i did suggest alot of restaurants even hawker stalls but sujie was keep object my idea . At last our conclusion was ta bao balik makan . cheap and not hot . =D yess .. good .
after bath i was headed to gurney again . that's all :)

2009-08-06T11:18:00.000-07:00

Looking at my white board, my times quite free and not tight at all .

Actually more free times , just make me become more lazy .. like lengang lengang ppl edi .

Ahh.. I should manage my times . But before all i do , what i do must clean up my room. so so so messy.. no idea ..

movie .

2009-08-06T11:04:00.000-07:00

Went to watch G.I Joe just now , a not bad movie but more attract to guys . HAhaaa.
Still have much movies on showing .. (:
Today I was same like usual stayed home morning and noon , yet watching series. heeh
my holidays so far still left one week and err 3 days .soon to over my holidays.. worry about my result =( . good luck everyone

more and more times please

2009-08-05T07:58:00.000-07:00

give me sometimes to done my things .. Ahhhh.. pleasee... this weekend job postpone to next week. >_< what i gonna do again?

HohOhO

2009-08-05T01:59:00.000-07:00

I recieved call d xD This coming fri , sat and sunday may be not wasting time anymore . Thanks god . heheheee . lalala~

damn .

2009-08-04T20:22:00.000-07:00

haha! Everyone , im back to here and my blog finally has something changes! I really sacrify my time to done them ! slept at 4am .. and woke up around er.. 7 smth because i saw a msg make myself must wake up instead. -.- Shit kenny kong now only reply my msg and said " I think no liao sorry . " wth ? somemore how confirm was him to me and said sure sure last time. Its all about work during 7-9 Aug , was have another good pay than . But i was rejected cause since i already promised but now happen such shits unresponsible things to mee....... i was speechless and woke up on my lappie send my profile to apply another job . but .. seriously i dont think can get because its so near to date! isssh issh .. I hate such people likes unresponsible somemore make something changes around the date! My times gonna waste up again , if not still have something to cover my weekend .. now like . OH.. FRIDAY , SATURDAY AND SUNDAY what i gonna to do? issh. shit!

supper

2009-07-29T08:16:00.000-07:00

My supper , 2 boxes tako and 1 box of " guo tie " . Had my satisfied yummy supper seriously . so so so FUll .. wahhh xD still left one more tako on my desk . stomach really enough full..

Tomorrow need go for body check up in the morning . all the best to me . (: o mi tuo fo .. xD

no idea where to go after that . anything can fill up my times besides watching series ? ahhhh? anything? anyone ? Having holidays but not fun at all , most of my close frens are not in holidays .. Different courses or different colleges .. so badddd... :(

stop here 1st anyway . =]

What is Maslow's Hierarchy of needs theory?

2009-07-19T07:42:00.000-07:00

As we know theory of motivation is probably psychologist aBRAham MasLOW's HIerarCHY of needs theory . 5 types of needs

1st type -
Physiological needs - food , drink , shelter , sexual satisfaction , and other bodily requirements.
example , I need makan , i need water , i need a boy fren ! this is physiological needs

2nd type -
safety needs - security and protection from physical and emotional harm .
example , I need 10 cctv in my house ! I need set alarm in my house ! I need a sign contract for a long term job ! This is safety needs .

3rd type -
social needs - affection . belongingness . acceptance , and friendship
example , I need kawan ! i need kawan listen to me cakapppp.. i need ppl accept who am i.... this is social needs

4th type -
esteem needs - Internal esteem factors such as self-respect , autonomy , and achievement and external ..........................................

half no mood

Its not fully 100

2009-07-19T02:28:00.000-07:00

1. Last beverage → jasmine tea
2. Last phone call → my mum
3. Last text message → ailin
4. Last song you listened to → jolin's song . forgotten what name .
5. Last time you cried → who cares about it?
SIX HAVE YOU EVER:
1. Dated someone twice → dated someone twice?
2. Been cheated on? → cheated ? mum always cheating me when im still a kid.lol
3. Cheated someone else? → not cheated but maybe lied
4. Lost someone special? → who is the special one?
5. Been depressed? → Yea.
6. Been drunk and threw up? → never wanted to be like this .
LIST FOUR FAVORITE COLORS:
1. white
2. black
3. red
4. pink
HAVE YOU:
1. Made new friends → sure
2. Fallen out of love → yes
3. Laughed until you cried → maybe next time . haah
4. Met someone who changed you → nope .
5. Found out who your true friends were → yeahh.
6. Found out someone was talking about you → I dont care? so never try to find
7. Kissed anyone on your friend's list → friend's list? where is the list?
8. How many people on your friend's list do you know in real life → again . where is the list?
9. How many kids do you want to have → depends .
10. Do you have any pets → nope . i wish have one
11. Do you want to change your name → duwan . it just confuse people
12. What did you do for your last birthday → birthday party
13. What time did you wake up today → 9 something?
14. What were you doing at midnight last night → studying
15. Name somethings you CANNOT wait for → exam pls over faster
16. Last time you saw your father → minutes ago
17. One thing you wish you could change about your life → I think i dont wish to change but maybe wish to be better .
18. What are you listening to right now → nothing .
19. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom → Tom and jerry?
20. What's getting on your nerves right now? → im hungry
21. Most visited webpage → er. blogspot
1. What's your name → stella ooi yi ling
2. Nicknames →stella
4. Zodiac sign → gemini
5. Male or female or transgendered → Female
6. Elementary → kinder garden
7. Middle School → pcghs
8. High school → cdk
10. Hair color → Brown
11. Long or short → Long
16. Height → 168cm
17. Do you have a crush on someone? → my adore
18: What do you like about yourself? → for u to find out
19. Piercings → both of my ears
20. Tattoos → None , i dont need any
21. Righty or lefty → righty
22. First surgery → none
23. First piercing → form1?
24. First best friends → i think that was happened when kiddo times
26. First sport you joined → ping pong
27. First pet → fish . no more now .
28. First vacation → genting . went with my parents when i was 6 years old
29. First concert → never been
30. First crush → crush ? kiddo time. hahaha
RIGHT NOW:
49. Eating → No
50. Drinking → No
52. I'm about to → take my dinner .
53. Listening to → Nothing
55. Waiting for → myself finish the rest of questions
YOUR FUTURE :
58. Want kids? → sure.
59. Want to get married? → sure . who dont?
60. Careers in mind? → the way can earn much money as i can
WHICH IS BETTER WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?
68. Lips or eyes → eyes
69. Hugs or kisses → hugs
70. Shorter or taller → Taller
71. Older or Younger → younger
72. Romantic or spontaneous → romanticccccc
73. Nice stomach or nice arms → stomach
74. Sensitive or loud → sensitive
75. Hook-up or relationship → relationship
76. Trouble maker or hesitant -> Trouble maker
HAVE YOU EVER :
78. Kissed a stranger → impossible?
79. Drank hard liquor → yes
80. Lost glasses/contacts → alwayss.. hahha
81. Sex on first date → no
82. Broken someone's heart → i dunno ? because im not someone . if i did then im sorry
83. Had your own heart broken → Yess but its still fully recovered now .
86. Turned someone down → never
87. Cried when someone died → yea
88. Liked a friend that is a girl? → i like everyone
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
89. Yourself → of cus . why not?
90. Miracles → yes
91. Love at first sight → that's not love .
92. Heaven → yes
93. Santa Clause → ini tipu budak kecikk
95. Kissing on the first date? → depends
96. Angels → No
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
97. Is there one person you want to be with right now? → Yea of course
98. Who is it? → u know i know
99. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? → what for?
100. Posting this as 100 Truths? → i guess these all questions are not fully 100

I sleep late

2009-07-18T11:39:00.000-07:00

I sleep late , its super late lately . I have been long time never stay so late until 3am , 4am or 5am ..

I still remember last time stay late for watching series , i can watch series until next morning .. HAHAHA .. until the next day going school again . but still catch up well last time even sleepless .

Now seems like cant get those words save into my mind . how now ? Im really ........ .

where's my heart now ? no .. should be where is my "fight" ? It seems like not longer staying in my mind anymore . I have no idea =/ anyone can help? hmmm

2009-07-17T02:13:00.000-07:00

Blank in my mind . okay .. Let's start about
What Are Some Techniques For Reducing Resistance to Organizational Change?
when management sees resistance to change as dysfunctional , what actions can it take?
Several tactics have been suggested for use by managers or other change agents in dealing with resistance to change. These include education and communication , participation , facilitation and support , negotition , manipulation and cooptation , and coercion .

Education and communication can help reduce resistance to change by helping employees to see the logic of the change effort . This technique , of course , assumes that much of the resistance lies in misinformation or poor communication .
Participation involves bringing those individuals directly affected by the proposed change into the decision-making process . Their participation allows these individuals to express their feelings , increase the quality of the process , and increase employee commitment to the final decision .
Facilitation and Support involves helping employees deal with the fear and anxiety associated with the change effort . This help may include employee counseling , therapy , new skills training , or a short paid leave of absence.

to be continue..

untitle

2009-07-13T23:14:00.000-07:00

Im bad to giving to title , so i just put untitle for the title . lol .

Currently not much special happen , so i seldom blogging . But since i know there is still got people reading my blog , so i just update . HAHAHAHAHHA . blehh

Yesterday accounting class canceled suddenly , so sin yee and I went to red sing again . I think the reason for us to hang out together just go for sing , besides class break time we just dining together . haha . So so soon , year 2009 already reached july . few months later then 2010 ? yahhh.. so so soonnnnn.. soon to reach merdeka , soon to reach people's birthday and soon to reach christmas . And what's the real "soon" one is my exam .. HHAHAA.. its really sooon!!!! few days later .. ekkk! sien sajaaaaaa.. =( afraid . HO! OMG ... no idea of it . -.-

oh yeah , were dining last saturday at dragon i . That's my family and sis's bf gathering day , so just dining togetherrr . Quite a good day but i was out of mood . was wanted shop around to get something back , but really left not much time becus the shopping mall gonna " sau dong " edi . Just bought 2 key chains , and i collected them yesterday again because they need put something on them .

sui ler ? haha. behind of the key chains lagi sui. hahahaha. blehhhh.. tat's all..

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

2009-07-10T06:54:00.000-07:00

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." This sentence by cassidy gan . Im totally agree with him , so i ll posted it here . =]
As often we heard people said I wish I can go back to last time , it might be could somethings better if .......... . But why people not start a new beginning from the second ? it properly can make a better ending . =] right people?
Now playing a song sang by the used - smother me . The lyris is not bad . maybe next time i ll post it here . (:

morning

2009-07-03T17:11:00.000-07:00

I woke up about 7 am something today , so Im here to blog . It have been long time never update my blog , im actually with my blur mind to typing all shits here . haaaa.. -.-
Besides updating my blog , on the other hand im checking mails in the hotmail . Seven hundred plus mails , but most of them are friendster and facebook's mails . I deleted without reading them , unless forward messages and mails from people . Actually im quite enjoy reading forward message . haha. I just found that sugar cane contains much bateria , so please dont drink anymore . below is the news i got it from hotmail .

Health News - About Sugar Cane Drinks

A friend whose father works for the government health inspection passed on his info. Their job is to inspect all hawkers, their cooked food, their store hygiene, etc. They found sugar cane juice has the highest content of bacteria among all food. In fact, it has exceeded the set limit. Hence, these guys had to find out why. They went round all sugar cane stores and watched the way the hawkers handled their sugar cane, wash their glasses, their entireprocedure. But they couldn't find the problem. One day, they stayed till closing time and discovered someshocking facts! Whenever, the hawkers closed their stores,they would wash the floor with detergent.. As we know, there maining sugar canes will be placed at the back of the store, vertically standing and as sugar canes are very porous, they tend to absorb whatever liquid around them. Besides the soapy water, the dirt on hawkers' boots,cats' urine, etc, will all be absorbed?? Now, whenever I eat at a hawker centre, I would warn all my friends about this and of course I stopped drinking my favorite sugar cane juice.A friend, who loved sugar cane juice, was pregnant. She was always drinking sugar cane juice. Anyway, one day she miscarried and the fetus was already like 6 or 7 months old,I think. When the doctors did an autopsy to find out why allof a sudden the fetus had died inside her, they found traces of some chemical substance, which was found in cat urine...Large traces of it.While it would not be able to harm adults, it was extremely toxic to babies, what more a fetus? So they tried to determine how this cat urine thing could have ended up inthe fetus. This meant that it had to be digested by the mother, right? And the only logical conclusion they could come up with was that since these sugar cane juice stall holders just leave the canes lying around on the wet anddirty floor, it would not be impossible to think that stray cats could have peed on those sugar canes or near those sugar canes.. So think carefully the next time you order that favorite sugar cane juice!

OMG ! disgusting right ? stop to drink it , because it might be u r drinking bacteria O.O

web camm

2009-06-22T08:11:00.000-07:00

A random pic through web cam last few days . Currently my schdule quite alot of free times , then i became lazy lady . Besides lazy still lazyyyy.. =\
Thinking want to arrange my time become pack , so that i wont be lazy . =)
feeling dizzy now , seem like not enough sleep ? ehh?? why ahhh.. :(
even now im typing but my eyes seem like wanted to close .. hmmm..
tomorrow having class replacement which is BUSINESS MATH . lol . bored class seriously .. his lecture likes a pill , make me feel sleepy everytime.. blehhhhhh
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I saw love in the friendship

2009-06-18T13:06:00.000-07:00

I cant remember how was it long i never touch by a friendship , just few years ago . Today I realized love in the friendship still living in the world , I got touched and cried today . A true friend always waking up a friend who lost herself , its touch . In current century , people living with selfish , benefit , and self-protected . Whose cares for others? Even a friend , currently people dont really giving true heart to own friend . But , today I saw . Good people aint easy to be , can be said " good people always hard to be than a bad people " . Do people agree with me?

In our life time , its a luck to meet a good friend or good friends . Years ago , I had met good friends in my life . What and how they supported me from the past , I ll never forget . Currently , some friends are only for social function , they ll never help while seeing people fall in the bottom or needed help . Glad to have luck , I saw a friend trying hardly pull a friend out who is losing herself in her mind . When people losing ownself , they never know what should do and what suppose not to do . Its a job for people save out their good friend =)

Think widely , appreciate friends and anyone who loves u .

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95 about meee

2009-06-17T06:44:00.000-07:00

01) Name: Stella ooi yi ling

02) Birthdate: 25th May

03) Address: Somewhere in penang

04) Blood type: O

05) Height: 168cm

06) Weight: 47kg

07) Shoe size: size 6

08) Personality: for you to judge

09) Dream: Successful & Powerful woman who respected by people

10)Specialties: For you to find out

11) Hobbies: which i do it everyday

12) My ideal: got my own big house

13) Celebs you like: paris hilton

14) Fav Flower: rose

15) I want to go out with this kind of person: The one wanted to go where i want to go

16) Fav. Fruit: peach

17) People you don't like: The one who is selfish for herself / himself

18) Fav comic book: Doremon ( not really into it now )

19) What I'm worried about: the thing i suppose worried

20) What I'm not worried about: which is happen good

21) Alcohol tolerance: um . u ll know if drink with me

22) First love: Form2

23) Someone I respect: I respect everyone

24) Sport I'm good at: I have non sport cell in my body

25) Fav song: Instrumental

26) Number of blind dates you've gone on: hmm

27) When I look the best: When I'm rewarded from people

28) Person I've liked the best out of all the people I've gone out with: haha (:

29) Fav number: 3

30) Prized Possession: dunno

31) Lowest ranking: zero

32) Religion: Buddhist

33) What I think when looking in the mirror: oh , its me (:

34) Fav colour: white

35) Good thing about myself: Kind & humble

36) Bad thing about myself: For me to know , for you to judge

37) Drinking habits: tea

38) On a rainy day I want to go outside and get wet: what for? I hate rainy day

39) Things I cook well: oriental foods

40) Something I want to do right now: complete this

41) Language I'm good at: mandarin

42) Something I want to do with the person I love: travel around the world with him

43) A present I want to give the person I love: My love

44) Things I want: Love and happiness

45) If you met a boyfriend from the past: say hello

46) A present I want to receive from the person I love: still love

47) Phone greeting: huh

48) Ringtone: Love game

49) Caller rings: same

50) If you found 1 million dollars on the road: I'll pick it up and share with my family

51) Habits: eat alot. haha

52) Sleeping habits: i never how's the way i sleeping

53) What I'm wearing as of now: Big T shirt and a boxer

54) I want to die when: when i want to die . lol

55) Something I want to do right now: u asked before

56) How many times have you received flowers from a person of the different gender: 2

57) Where I want surgery: secret

58) My charm: the ppl who loves me can c it

59) What people think of me: they never told me , u should know

60) Something I say a lot: yea lo

61) What I'm scared of: rats and wild dogs =S

62) When I was most hurt: when i feel im nothing at all

63) When I feel the happiest: When i achieved something

64) What I do when I'm scared: thinking what should i do now

65) When have you given chocolates to someone for valentines day: never

66) What I do when I'm stressed: shopping . lol

67) What I like to eat when I drink: lamb

68) What I do when I'm mad: scream

69) Things I can't eat: errr

70) Time I get to school: different day different time

71) Something I want to learn: Being smart

72) What I do when there is someone I don't like: I cant see them

73) When I was the happiest in my life: the time fell in the bottom and got up again

74) What I think of money: Money is the one most attract people . lol . that's why ppl work hard now

75) If the person you love ended up loving someone else: Let the person go

76) Most recent time I've cried: days ago

77) Sunshine or Moonlight: Moonlight

78) First kiss: kid's time.lol

79) If someone I broke up with wanted to get back: I ll think about it but 90% i wont turn back

80) Favorite person of a different race I like: americans but i still prefer chinese

81) My most favorite thing I own: My pillow my bed , i need it every night

82) How long I can wait for someone: I cant wait but depends how worth with it

83) When I was most disappointed: starting thinking of why why why

84) your monthly allowance: secret

85) Fav animals: I dont like animal -.-

86) Fav. Season: autum

87) Most memorable date: secret

88) What I look at when I look at someone of the other gender: his personality

89) Nicknames: stella

90) Love is: around us

91) When I know the person I love has changed: i hope is improve but not changed to bad

92) What I don't like when I'm going out with someone: he/she trying to tell me how rich he/she is . lol

93) What I like the most about myself: humble

94) A wish for this year: I wish everything alright

95) Last thing you want to say: I want go to bath now :)

addicted

2009-06-14T03:12:00.000-07:00

Addicted a game names crazy taxi , one of games from facebook . Currently still score 59994 pts =( still far way from my target . issh issh . Dont know how to break my current record , keep on trying non stop but still the same . noob ! haha xD

Now im waiting for a singapore series names The ultimatum , downloading espisode 04 . haha. A not bad series seriously , actually Im not really like singapore series but this one is not bad .

below the picture is the poster of THE ULTIMATUM

The story talks about 2 new born baby accidently fall the name tags of their name , because of it they exchange their life . One from a rich family and another one from poor family . Im still same staying at home today , never go out :) so these days i never record my cash book =D haha.because my money never credited these days ^^v wheee

Never knw when it already started

2009-06-13T12:54:00.000-07:00

I took out one of photo album randomly from drawer , I have seen alot of pictures which contains alot of memories . I saw my parents with young looking , I guess the pictures was around 10 years + ago . I saw my sister , brother and myself in those memories pictures . All the family members were laughing happily while taking picture , one word to describe - happiness . In a sudden , my tears was rolling down without my control . Why ? While I seeing a picture which taken with my brother , we were laughing happily from heart in the picture . Did we think before 10 years later we still can take such picture last time? No one knows 10 years later alot things changed . The family without happiness , I cant see any happiness or sweetness all the times . It might be happened on a time , just we were not realized . Maybe people cant see any my happily picture now even Im smiling in the picture , I cant really happy from my heart . Conclusion , I cant even giving people happiness . Outsider always said that im look too cool and serious to people , seriously I never realized actually I dont smile often . Until people tolds me that . :)

I don't know what made me becomes reality and beware now , maybe age drove me on or it may be myself changed . How I wish times turn back , I want to feel the happy family . OR god may let my all family members dream about it tonight , at least they ll know now is so much different from last time .

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sleep and sleep again

2009-06-12T09:28:00.000-07:00

Dunno what happen today , I was like sleep and sleep again . Never know what is the time , I just sleep whenever I wanted to sleep . Wake for few hours , then sleep again . Repeated again and again today , HAHA .. im really so tired? maybe but I dunno the reason why im so tired . hehe (:

Not really want to out these days , maybe it may control myself dont spending money too much anymore . Now just beginning of the month , cannot use all the money yet . hehe.. (: somemore father's day is so soon , of cause have to save some money for buying present / cake / treat lunch or dinner . hmm (:

series still downloading , so slow == I dunno what can i do now , blog and blog . yeeeeeeee. so sien =( At home sien , hang out sien .. at home just can online , series and series again . study ? hhha. quite lazy =P hang out - same place , same people and do the same things , shop / sing k / dining . Seldom going for movie because friends are booked by kang tao , haha =D so never update myself for movie , and never knw what movie is showing and which movie is popular now . I totally no idea with this (: maybe series can bring me some topic on it , no way for movie (: haha. anyway , i ll stop here (:

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series

2009-06-12T01:20:00.000-07:00

I stayed home except went college , nothing much i can do at home so just downloaded some series (: my favorite . haha ..

The series name - knock knock loving you . ( hahaha.. so funny )

From beginning , i just simply wanted to download some movie and in a sudden attracted by the poster because the poster was nice and my idol was there (: ming dao xD

A not bad movie , the series related to the family property business and definitely it contains love story too (:

The movie which im downloading now . never watch yet . wish it is a great movie . waiting forward to watch =D TRUE BLOOD . sound cool =P

waiting

2009-06-11T06:51:00.001-07:00

Remember years ago , i was never mind for waiting people . I mean waiting people who comes late or something , i can wait even HOURS ! but now , I realize that I never can waiting for people . I think i ll get frastured ? yea . maybe .. Last time , If i date with people , I will sure reach before 1 hour . haha.. it sounds so crazy right ? but it was me . But now I changed , didnt know it changes to be better or x ? Now , if date with people , i will be reach sharp or jz in 5 minutes before . If the one who i date with is late than 15 minutes , ahh.. sorry.. I ll go back home directly or cancel the date , because i think i have no mood to continue the date anymore . Emo right? i definitely need to change to be relax abit (:

blog?

2009-06-10T08:48:00.000-07:00

I don't know what to post , but still feel like blogging . ummm .. nothing much these days . last friday and weekend worked for LG roadshow for HOMEDEC at pisa . Did know some of friends there . Not bad during working period , but just legs damn pain because with high heels . :(

My best friend sujie was cames back from NS , finally back (: hahaha.. was quite excited for the outing with her since long time did not c her .When started was quite strange but after a while still okay . hehe (: I spended quite alot from 1st june 2009 until today . Maybe the amount same as usual but i just started made a book for counting how much i spended everyday . rm700+ from 1st june until 10th june 2009. 0.O I wish can spend lesser .. umm.. haiz . no idea .. No one will be controling me because the money belong to me =\ I think i will be spend lesser once i got lesser income . But i never wish that my income becomes lesser. lol . who wish right?

Feel like traveling alone to kl , but still planning . Afraid i will be lost at there.. HAHAHAHA..

Tomorrow having management and english class again , morning class somemore .dot dot dot ..

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-_-

2009-06-03T10:12:00.000-07:00

I jz finished read up alot of my friends blog and maybe some strangers blog . It might be a way to cure my boredness , or it might i kepo ppl life . HAHAHAH .. whatever lahh (:
Some people likes to blog about her/his daily life with friends , some ppl are like to blog about her/his love story with her/his loves one , some ppl are like to blog about what they are thinking in heart or something . I can seen some people written the blog happily or with sadness .
I dont really blog what im thinking in heart , because i seldom want to letting people know what im thinking in heart . why? umm.. maybe it is complicated or it might be no one to listen . so.. haha..
I jz had arguement with mum just now , so from jz now until now ... i think there was already 7 or 8 hours ago . I really really prefer staying alone , because there is no one to make noise thr. (: It is hard to escape an argue , because there is always different thinking or opinion from people .
I jz heard "BANG" seconds ago , it was my mum the way closing the door. speechless .. -.-

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day

2009-05-31T06:21:00.000-07:00

Not really want to update my blog recently , because nothing much to blog ..
There always the same thing i did everyday , online , watch tv , listening song and eat then sleep again. As my parents always not home these days , went outstation . I have to be part time house maid in house =P one of the reason made me stay home these days too . My room now likes err .. =\ many things .. not messy but really too many things .. Mum brought back alot of things from another house , as i always like to keep old stuff . I dun like to throw old stuff away , because some are contain memory . SOoo... keep keep keep .. my room like mountain now . I wish next time can have a bigger house . =)
Didnt post about my birthday party pictures , because was not taking much picture on that day.. Too busyyyyy.. hmmm
I got alot of present and ang pau from my friends , sister and my parents . Thank you for those had wished my happy birthday too.. Appreciateeee.. teehee.. thanks for a person who sent a birthday card from AUS for me.. I can seen you're really got the heart.. hahahahaha.. THANKS ANYWAY! =)
Tomorrow morning class canceled and replace tomorrow .. Its nice to not waking up so early but ...... =\ its waste time for going 2mr again =( huhuhuhuhuuu

a horrible experienced

2009-05-23T00:27:00.000-07:00

22th may 2008

I went to vivian's house last night about 11 something , was left her house at 1 something . We were chatting and online in the room , after i jz left her house.
After I left her house , there are 2 ways to back my house . Turn left either right , i had chosen right way because i came frm right way too . When i walking in the half way , I have seen alot of wild dogs from far . My heart was considering need to pass through or wat , but i turn back at last . So , i chosen the left way again . I had turn back my head because it was late and already midnight , to be confirm no one following at my back . While i walking back using left way road , OMG! one of wild dog starting following me at back and barking . For my 1st appear on my mind was better walk faster and avoid the wild dog . But not what i expect , one more dog coming to me . I was like SHIT ! i really dunno what can i do and my heart started jumping fast and faster . I was stopped my step in a minute , because I really dunno what those wild and mad dogs would be do the next =S Those dogs were barking fiercely , more and more dogs came over . I started shouting my fren's name , again and again . But she cant heard im shouting at all.. My mind was thinking , OMG . i was thinking i will be die or my legs will be gone . It was terrible ! I was shouting louder and louder , but she never heard at all . I wanted take my mobile from my beg , but i really dare not move at all . Legs was started shaking , my hands too . I slowly put my hand into my beg , but SHIT ! those dogs come nearer and nearer , I almost wanted to cry ! because no one gonna save me at all .. ='( After that i took out my hp and trying to calling my fren up , unexpected she didnt pick my fon . My mind was thinking she might be turn on silent or wat , and really SHIT happened on me this time . I kept calling and calling , was trying move 1 step but once i move , those dogs came nearer to me . OMG .. i was like HELP! =( I non stop shouting my friend's name and calling non stop . At last her mummy heard im shouting , my fren was looking me frm her house . She talked to me in the fon , asking me to walk to her house slowly . BUT i really cant MOVE at all! I was like CANNOT CANNOT.. U HAVE TO COME OUT SAVE ME... T_T at last , her sister came out and shoo the dogs , and i slowly walk into the car . FINALLY , IM SAFE =( THANKS GOD!!!!

awesome song !

2009-05-21T21:37:00.000-07:00

Will Pan feat. Akon 潘瑋柏-Be With You MV <3

finally

2009-05-14T06:37:00.000-07:00

Finally im back to blog =) haha. because someone complained that i didnt update my blog .. so okay loo.. im here blogging now .. hehehh.. =)

haha.. people ! can you notice i dyed my hair into black? umm.. not black actually but dark brown.. very very very dark.. it just seems like black . =\ but anyhow , its still much better than before .. damn the shit colour on my hair , did tahan few months because afraid of my hair spoiled.. awww :( but now .. HHAHAA.. everything gonna be alright =P

nothing much about these few days .. last few days i attended trazemen's ong wedding dinner.. saw alot of his pics and his wife pics on the big screen with slideshows .. sweet.. and those pictures taken by FRANCETAIPEI .. ahh.. my ideal wedding studio ..I WANT I WANT ! those pictures are beautiful =) wish next time i can go for this studio and take wedding pictures xD HAHAA.. i should wake noww .. LOL .. still dreaming .. wish them have a warm new family soon (: tomorrow is my last paper for english I . xD yes. then i ll be having holidays about 1 week .. ahaha .. yes yes ! wish to working cause out of credit edi ... but wish to travel too.. ahh.. how? how? how? and my birthday soon ! teehee =P

i think i should go to sleep

2009-05-09T10:29:00.000-07:00

feel like to blogging b4 i sleep =P watching those video we were recorded last few days at red box . i think not going to upload =P cause not really good that i sang " ai ru chao shui " by zhang xin zhe . somemore laughed while half way singing .. hahahaa.. blehh.. but next time i may post some video up to blog maybe =D hehee =) i going to sleep now.. good night everyoneee .. (:

happy mother day

2009-05-09T07:33:00.000-07:00

a random pic above taken at my friend house on thursday . Today - saturday , sister came back from kl for celebrating mother day . Brother stays at singapore as well , never come back -..- ignore him . hmmp! I did bought a mocha ice cream cake for mum as well and it is for mother day. because she loves mocha =) she loves the cake alot , because it is taste good (: heeh
we went to BALI HAI where state at gurney had our dinner just now .. Quite full , cant finish all the dishes .
um... i think that's it.happy mother day <3

Labour day

2009-05-03T02:59:00.000-07:00

nothing much about labour day to me , cause currently still studying so not much effected to me have a public holiday .

i woke up in the early morning but seen non people in my house , i was wonder where did they go . After few hours dad just home and told me mummy at gleneagle hospital because of asma . will be staying few days at thr . god bless my mum . =)

after that i went gurney with vivian .. we planned to sing at red box but quite full because of public holiday , so we plan to have lunch . BUT .. all restaurants are FULLED! wth .. =\

but nvm , i just bought something to eat -.-

since so bored for the day , vivian , yvvone and I headed to cinema to see which movie is showing .. we choosen THE UNINVITED . A movie where shot at america and canada . It is a horrible , story movie . It is a quite great movie too ..

after the movie we just went to winter warmers have some drinks ..

the white wan wan was mine =D it is lavender milk tea

about nine something , we just left gurney and headed to old town and chit chat. These all about my labour day =)

changes

2009-04-30T03:05:00.000-07:00

i changed my blog's layout to white =D * enjoy it *

nothing much happen about me today .. same as usual . attended management class and english class every thursday . was quite sleepy during management class .. nearly fall asleep , because was slept late the b4 nite =P

I skipped my lunch break today xD AHAHA.. but i did taken brunch during 12 somethings . super hungry now -..- i think it is not healthy or right way to diet like this .. but .. u know what .. i cant make it eat less but more times . because there is always one plate or one bowl food outside what is selling ..so what can i do? eat half? WASTE LOO... i never will do that .. so i just dun eat when i dun feel want to eat =) hehe..

kie lahh.. im going to have my meal now .. will be continue later ^^

=(

2009-04-29T07:44:00.000-07:00

sien sien sien .. not much thing happen these few days , so not update my blog so often .. i just changed my second room into first room .. pc moved to another room .. so now im no more sitting on bed online , sitting a hard old stlye chair .. ass PAIN ! =p

not accept job often these times .. need a good rest and relax =)

mum said i became fatter and fatter =( so sad to listening this .. i wish to can eat lesser also mahhh.. but . . . -..- why foods are so nice.. smell so nice some more worrr .. T.T hmmm

tired

2009-04-26T09:44:00.000-07:00

tired x 100 ... spended alot these few days .. bank account going to be kosong again soon . ):

money hard to in , but always easy to out .. spending likes water . =x

these few days lazy to work , feel like want to rest for awhile . umm..

i got back my black hair =D * wide smile * but .... i still prefer chocolate colour as well .. i will be dying chocolate colour soon . but my mum -..- so annoying .. keep on saying : eh.. hello. ur hair will be spoiled la if u dye so soon and wat wat wat ....

so noisy .. sometimes respect her so i would be asking her comment .. but in the end .. HAHAHA.. quarrel becus we having different idea.. xD funny isit .. but still always respect and listen to her ..

exam coming soon , few weeks later will be having my mid term .. =) think so gonna stop all my things for awhile .. will be continue after my midterm . hehe =]

A Story to live by

2009-04-10T04:58:00.000-07:00

A Story to live by
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

有一位瞎女很討厭自己因為眼睛瞎了。她也討厭每個人，唯一不討厭的是她的男朋友，因為他都常守在她身旁。於是她對她的男朋友說：「如果能讓我看到這個世界，我愿意嫁給你！」

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

有一天，有人捐了一對眼精給她。當紗布解開時，她能夠看到一切，包括她的男朋友。

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.男朋友問她：「現在你可以看到這世界，你愿意嫁給我嗎？」那女孩看了男朋友是個瞎子，他那對蓋上眼皮的眼睛嚇到了她，這是她無法想像。她想：要我嫁給他而一生對着他這個樣子，我無法接受。

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'於是，她的男朋友很傷心的離開她，幾天後寫了字條給她：「親愛的，請你好好照顧你的眼睛，因為它不是屬於你的之前，它是屬於我的。」

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.這也是人的腦會如何做當情況有所變動。只有少許人會記得他或她之前的生活及誰會在身旁當他或她處在困境的時候Life Is a Gift生命是一份禮物

Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

今天，當你要講一句不善之言－－請想想那些無法講話的人

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.當你要埋怨食物的味道時－－請想想那些沒有食物吃的人

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.當你要埋怨你的先生或太太時－－請想想那些在向上天哭訴要一個伴侶的人

Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth.今天，當你要埋怨生活時－－請想想那些太早離開人世間的人

Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.當你要埋怨小孩時－－請想想那些渴望小孩而無能生育的人

Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.當你要爭論沒有人清理屋子時－－請想想那些住在街邊的人

Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.當你在哀訴駕駛的路程－－請想想那些同樣的路程以代步的人

And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.當你很疲備而埋怨工作時－－請想想那些無工作，殘疾的，及那些多麼希望擁有你這份工作的人

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.當你想要指著人或互相譴責時－－請記得沒有一個人是無罪

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.當壓抑的念頭讓你無法振作時－－請你笑一笑想想：你還活著存在世間！

april fool's day

2009-04-03T11:48:00.000-07:00

I almost forgot april fool day , never alert and just like ready to get fool by my friend -.- noob
Firstly i got fooled frm a text msg .. i never scroll down the message .. at last just got laughed and fooled by my stupid friend . hngggggg .. I will be alert next year! haaa!
yet edwin told me he won lottery 72K! nahhh.. i believed him ! how stupid am I .. ahh.. so noob and shy after i know myself actually got fooled . ):
SOB . . Anyway , have a nice april fool's day everyone

college reopen again ..

2009-03-30T08:36:00.001-07:00

Today woke up around 7am , because having 9am class . I always need to wake up 2 hours before or earlier to ready my stuff , so today same as usual ..

one of the morning class had postpone time .. so… what to do ? I dun think i can sleep again since i awake for so long-.- so that is no point to going back home again cause one more class at noon . we just went to ate some dim sum infront of our college .

Today suddenly felt that i had missed out a lot of things .. might be something ? oh yea.. I did ! so start from today , i don’t wanna miss anything anymore .. i should appreciate everything , yet i still wish dun meet any failure again . I told a lie today , heart feels uneasy .. really uneasy .. I wish i wont tell lie again . I exactly dislike to tell lie , i love to be true . (:

For my plan , im on my way here (:

tired

2009-03-29T10:52:00.001-07:00

I feel really tired nowaday . really tired .. i slept a lot these few days .. but just seems like cant get back my energy .. i just wanted to close my eyes and relax my mind .. too many things to think .. i wish time can be stop for awhile , let me sleep for awhile .. maybe i can wake up with a brand new stella ? hmmph .. –.-

memory? i always recalling last time lately .. dunno why .. i miss those memory . maybe there was not complicated life as now . –.- actually , we can make it easy , we can make it as usual .. but umm.. dunno? I still prefer last time ..

age getting older , wat i see always more than last time . but luck and people are getting lesser than last time . actually i need one to with me always .. but really why i cant meet anyone new ? age getting older just seems like i hard to getting a partner ? umm.. no idea. getting more choosy or wad ? but i asked myself.. am i really choosy for a partner? no lo ok .. ): i just need a nice wan with a true heart . maybe my luck still nt coming .. but wish to c u soon my luck (: muacks

sick ):

2009-03-24T08:17:00.001-07:00

these few days fell sick , feeling quite suffer and ahhhh.. sob ):

finally i backed to penang . went to ate lok lok at pulau tikus after came back from kedah . reach penang around 10 smth . have a super nice sleep on sunday night . cause .. hahaha :D i got back my pillow with me again .. hahaha.. feel good . (:

by the way , i had fun during at kedah last few days . hehe .

coll reopening soon . quite excited =D cus new semester coming soon :D hahaaha.. yeahh ^^

monday jz went to sing k with vivian , but out of voice . sick ): hope my sickness go away from me soon (:

sleepless

2009-03-20T11:58:00.001-07:00

now im in the cints sayang resort . working at the carnival water park .. cant sleep here.. awww ): dunno why. uh humm.. i miss my pillow anyway . i dunno why im so awake now o.o.
i miss the smell of my pillow seriously xD and i miss my bed ):
the mainpoint is ..... im so hungry now -.- how nice if have MAMEE and milk here with me . ahhh.. here like cant find any happy mart? 7 eleven ? watson ? either gardian . ): omg..
i prefer worked at auto city . at least thr can buy anything i need . shit . im so hungry la wei ..
i need to wake up 4 hours later .ahh.. which means 7am O.O hell . dunno 2mr wat going to eat .. huhuhu.. many things waiting me to done at penang . -..- if not that my heart will be feel uneasy . issh ):
dunno wat to write now . so wish my coll results will be well done . (: then i can go through my second semester easily . (=
2 working mates are sleeping now . aahaha.. im here online .
dunno wat to do now . thinking something now . emoing -.-
pillow , i miss u ):
without u , i cant sleep ): huhuhu

oh study . study study

2009-03-11T14:51:00.000-07:00

exam exam exam .. exam makes me crazy !! )=
few hours later then i gonna have my exam .. huhuhu.. ALL questions in essay !! Awwww ..
eyes watching books .. PEST . HRM . OWNERSHIP . FINANCE . ACCOUNTING . FRANCHISE . PLC . MARKET RESEACH . SEGMENTATION !! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..
hard to passing these few hours .. yet , gonna take my SPM result later! OMG . what a day !
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心

2009-03-10T09:37:00.000-07:00

第一句

如果我们之间有1000步的距离　　　　

你只要跨出第1步　　　　

我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步

第二句　　　　

通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人　　　　

才是真正爱你的人

第三句　　　　

付出真心　

才会得到真心　　　　

却也可能伤得彻底　　　　

保持距离　

就能保护自己　　　　

却也注定永远寂寞　　　　

第四句　　　　

有时候　

不是对方不在乎你　　　　

而是你把对方看得太重

第五句　　　　

朋友就是把你看透了　

还能喜欢你的人

第六句　　　　

就算是believe　

中间也藏了一个lie

第七句　　　　

真正的好朋友　　　　

并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题　　　　

而是在一起　

就算不说话　　　　

也不会感到尴尬

第八句　　　　

没有一百分的另一半　　　　

只有五十分的两个人　　　　

第九句　　　　

为你的难过而快乐的　

是敌人　　　　

为你的快乐而快乐的　

是朋友　　　　

为你的难过而难过的　　　　

就是那些　

该放进心里的人　　　　

第十句　　　　

冷漠　

有时候并不是无情　　　　

只是一种避免被伤害的工具

u m m

2009-03-07T10:05:00.000-08:00

now im in a hotel around auto city. working for 3 days f1 car show . =) tired
in these few days , i heard about love stories of my working mates .. some are broke up , some are started their new relationship..
what is love? love is a thing can make ppl feel happy , sweet and sad . or can say that is a mystery thing. until now i still havent get one partner for myself , because its hard to love a person wil full heart easily . and .. also hard to choose a partner u love .
yea. for me its hard and i dont think need a partner currently . some peoples demand their future partner need to have money , or career ..
yea. everyone do wish their partner have well career.. who dont? right ?
for me , choose a partner before must make-up urself .. ownself have good personality , academic , career and so on .. then who afraid of no partner..
some couples in relationship few years . some ppl can change heart easily and just break up . umm.. one of my fren currently meeting this .. but wat to do .. just let him go .. because U really cant change anything .
seeing frens around me facing problems , im really afraid of in relationship .

differences between guy and girl =D

2009-02-28T20:10:00.000-08:00

wonder

2009-02-26T23:21:00.000-08:00

i wonder why spammers are always free to visit people blog? haaaa* no comment . *.*

they like to left all the stupid messages which talking with themselve .. umm @_@

they might be felt happy but urmm.. no feeling to me ? because they are not a part of my life .. so who cares? heeeh* outsider maaa

i deleted all spammer messages because i really not welcome them . they also not apart in my life . so? why have to leave? rubbish should throw away into rubbish bin .. hahaaa*

dont like me then just stay away ..because i dun like u too .. =)

needed

2009-02-26T09:33:00.000-08:00

a very random picture from my handphone . the one who standing beside me is my collegues . thai student :) umm.. forgot her name * sorry *

recently visited alot of blogs.. i saw different person they have their different writing way . someone posted only happy stuff , but someone posted sad stuff.. why? umm.. no comment..

life is for everyone .. see people how to colour their life and make it interesting. for me , life is give us experience something . something that u want to try , something that u want to see.. i did experienced alot in mylife . i would like to experience travel alone in my life if i have a chance.. maybe i have a long long free time . i would like to take few months to try for it ..

last time , i love to being alone . because i feel there is no one bother me and halt me do anything i want . but now , im afraid of lonely.. i dunno why . i wish someone to talking with me , texting with me or shop with me .. last time i never like to shop with people.. i like to buying things alone . i dun need anyone to give me suggestion what should i buy and what shouldn't to buy it . because my mind already telling me what i want to. but now.. i dunno.. i need ppl to give suggestion . conclusion , i need people . now im trying to be independent again .

nothing much

2009-02-17T10:12:00.000-08:00

monday after class just hang out with frien and night time went to coffee island again .
didnt took any picture... about tuesday . whole day stay at home ... ahhh.. headache.. quite sick
=(
nothing much to write.. bye bye ):

simply sunday

2009-02-17T01:13:00.000-08:00

a simply sunday at 15th of feb . went out online and drink at starbucks =)

valentine's day with friends

2009-02-14T11:28:00.000-08:00

today jess and I went to pragin look for high heels because my high heels almost like shit .
whose knows dun have my size =( fineee.. try to going gurney to look up ..
there was so jam on the way to gurney .. we were seeing the cars around almost couple !! hmmp ! so damnn...ahhhhh =(
after that we decide to eat at coffee island .because too jam on the road.. after dinner . i rush to gurney to look up high heels .. ahh.. no size again ! why always no size !! hmmp.. =(
at last i simply pick one which have my size . im not really like the heels actually..
after gurney we jz went to upper road to have drinks at smoky jack . 1st time been there.. um. not bad. the waitress was so friendly =) cute b4 we gonna smoky jack . issac came and find us awhile.. after that just left . met siang and wei too =) we jz gone mois at last . and gone back home around 2 smth
happy valentine's day everyone =)

happy valentine's day everyone =)

2009-02-13T21:54:00.000-08:00

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to everyone ! 14th of feb is a sweet day for every double people.. nono.. i mean for everyone who are in relationship. hehe =)
some single people do hate this day so much. hahaaa.. some single people can get into emo -.-
but for myself . em .. valentine's day is not my date . cus im single .. =)
single and lonely? oh NO.. im not lonely. because i wont being single forever xD
it's sweet if have a own beloved and partner. may feel every moment is so great and colours .
but single not bad maaaa .. as long as living everyday happily than that is better than all =)
but i still keens to get a partner . but .. meet someone that love each other . that is not a easy =)
im here to wish in relationship people having a great day and single people umm.. HAHAHA.. wish u all success on confess to ur love wan and who have no kang tao wan thennn wish u all recieve chocolate and flowers from ur admire xD

have to !

2009-02-10T11:00:00.000-08:00

already midnight 3am+ . these 2 books made me STRESS! im so afraid of it . because thursday will be my 1st midterm exam at college . i don't know i can do well or not .cause it is my FIRST TIME ! =( huhuhu

actually later 8am plan go to hiking , but ... umm.. is it wasting time ? but actually now im wasting my time to blogging too -.- speechless.. i think i cant get into sleep because now having a cup of coffee .

that is so pity to studying so late . but wat to do ... umm -.-

being human needs to be like this .

being a mother's daugher , i have to ..

being a daddy's daughter , i have to ..

being a sis's younger sister , i have to ..

being a bro's younger sister , i have to ..

being a student , i have to ..

because of future , i have to ..

because of find a good job , i have to ..

because of wanted to be academic people , i have to ..
because of wanted find a better partner , i have to ..

because of ANYTHING , i have to ..

conclusion - STELLA . U HAVE TO STUDY !

oh yea , cant blame who .. cause these all are I need , I want and I demand =)

outing

2009-02-09T22:05:00.000-08:00

yesterday vivian and I went to Queensbay mall . HAHAHA.. nothing there.. quite boring walking half day . after that we went to coffee island met up louis and ronan them .. haha.. after awhile vivian and I gone to another table cus ah wei came .

here is he.. hahaha.. funny huh.. i think he is so regret to sending me this picture .. HAHHAHA xD * hope he wont read my blog * xD

after coffee island , we second round yam cha. old town .. only ah chung , vivian and I . after awhile jeff came to meet up vivian . around 11 smth we jz gone back =)

look up

2009-02-07T23:39:00.000-08:00

look up . everything should look up and look forward . :)

didnt go anywhere today. stay home and study :)

umm

2009-02-06T02:41:00.000-08:00

nothing special currently . same as usual hang out with friends and class . oh yea . i stop my piano lesson at piano forte . because the teacher is really abnormal - - . i was always afraid when i want to go for piano class . the piano tutor is really abnormal . advise to everyone do not go for piano lesson at piano forte around new world park :)

valentine's day is so soon . everyone is excited for the date. except me :) i dont think i have any activity on that day , so just stay home :)

night

2009-02-01T07:57:00.000-08:00

still left around 3 minutes then going to 12am . what should i have to do now ? sleep? yeah. properly i need to go sleep now.. nono .. not now.. after blogging =D
i feel im really fat now.. body like a BALL !! arghhh.. diet ! i dunno when only can success diet !! :'(
btw , i have to diet and earn more money !!! huhuhuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
i wish to have unlimited jobs for me . yet , i cant be boring with my single lifeee =D

happy cny ( web cam )

2009-02-01T01:33:00.000-08:00

ah wei

hong wei

haha.both also wei . tis year cny not much special. stay penang and meet up some frens and take ang paus :) and have a cool cny too.. YEAH ! (:

the pic on above was taken at kek lok si :) goat :)

at sakae

i was went for 2 movies during cny . the wedding game and bride wars. bride wars is DAMN NICE ! go and watch it ! it have touching ending :)

all about me stella

I love you

很好看到台湾剧

不能睡

发恶梦

家家有本难念的经，我要怎样才能把这本经念完？

还是在家好

美人心计

家家有本难念的经

Here again

im back !

many days

muak

美。。 美到要死。。

saturday

Heart dar

hmm

tired

thanksful

Finally

tired but sweet in heart

爱

很累

happy (:

i love ! (:

I’m back .

n e w

new started .

saturday

movie .

more and more times please

HohOhO

damn .

supper

What is Maslow's Hierarchy of needs theory?

Its not fully 100

I sleep late

untitle

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

morning

web camm

I saw love in the friendship

95 about meee

addicted

Never knw when it already started

sleep and sleep again

series

waiting

blog?

-_-

day

a horrible experienced

awesome song !

finally

i think i should go to sleep

happy mother day

Labour day

changes

=(

tired

A Story to live by

april fool's day

college reopen again ..

tired

sick ):

sleepless

oh study . study study

心

u m m

differences between guy and girl =D

wonder

needed

nothing much

simply sunday

valentine's day with friends

happy valentine's day everyone =)

have to !

outing

look up

umm

美。。美到要死。。